Husband, co-worker, crap?

I would sit my husband down right now and tell him what is acceptable and not acceptable in your relationship with him. You tell him not to be flattered by this woman and the ill attention that she is giving him because she does not give a dam about his marriage. I would also let him know that if he ever crosses the line on you that there will be no forgiveness and the marriage with you would be over and that's the bottom line. Point out to him that you know as a woman what she is up to because you do not invite a married man over for dinner and mention to a married man that she lives alone. This woman is selfish and self centered and I would let him know that he has been warned and needs to keep his priorities in tact. If this woman was on the up and up she would have invited you to dinner along with your husband and if your husband does not want to see that then he is enjoying the attention and putting himself in a dangerous situation to do you wrong. If this were me I would probably confront this woman and tell her to back off or you will have your husband file a ual harment against her if she doesn't leave him alone. I realize that you can only trust your husband here and you can only count on him to do you right and respect you but.... when a woman like this keeps on pushing his ons someone needs to put a stop to it somehow or else. She has called your home at an inappropriate hour and text messaging your husband and only he can put a stop to that if he wants to. There is no reason for them to communicate outside of the job unless he is coming on to her to and I would go at him like a bull in a china shop because it is your life that is being toyed with here. You tell your husband that it stops now because this woman is a very big issue to you so much so that you are making an appointment with a marriage counselor for the both of you. Let him know that you feel that some healthy intervention needs to take place and to understand what consequences he will face if he does not put an end to this womans behavior that he is allowing to continue on with him. Your husband is way to friendly when she can feel free to invite him to her home so he is playing a part in this even though he may not admitt it. Get intervention now sweetie.